Monday, April 5, 2010

Still going

So... I'm back home and working away. My new job is going well. It's nice to be home from training. Coming home was great. I love getting to see my wife every day. Staying away from sexual impurity has been the best thing I've ever done for my marriage.

I wish I could explain what it does when you focus on God and keep your mind from wondering to the things that you used to. Men focus on women. Men fantasize about women. Its how it is right? Its just how we're hard wired right? Those are just attempts at justifying our weak will. We were put here on Earth by God to do His will. Part of that is to honor the wives He has blessed us with. That means that our hearts, minds, words and actions should please her. What wife out there would honestly say that it is pleasing to her to have us fantasize about another women?

I finished reading "Every Women's Desire" while I was up in Oakland. Every husband should read it.